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Minimalism as Maximal Defiance In a world screaming for attention, clutter has become a language of compliance. The louder your lifestyle, the more you are expected to participate — to buy, to consume, to post. Every new gadget, every drop, every trend demands notice. And in this environ…

When Authenticity Becomes a Performance For years, “authenticity” has been the holy grail of culture. Brands promised it, influencers preached it, friends posted about it. Authenticity meant honesty, vulnerability, truth. It was meant to cut through the noise of curation and give us some…

The Currency of Attention In 2025, money isn’t the scarcest resource. Neither is time. It’s attention — the act of focusing, even for a second, in a world engineered to scatter it. If Shocktober is about making statements, then the most radical statement today is this: what you choose to…

Silence Is the New Protest We used to think protest meant noise. The chant in the street. The megaphone. The all-caps post online. For decades, volume was power. If you weren’t loud, you weren’t heard. If you weren’t visible, you weren’t valid. But in 2025, something has shifted: silence …

Making a Statement is Blending In in 2025 Fashion has always been a language of rebellion. A ripped tee in the ’70s screamed punk. A couture gown at a protest in the 2010s declared resistance. For decades, to make a statement was to stand out . But in 2025, the world looks different: ev…

The Luxury of Unseen Life In 2025, being unseen is a rare privilege. Most lives are curated, documented, and performed for an audience that is always watching. Choosing to exist without broadcast — to live without constant observation — has become a luxury few can afford. The unseen lif…

Recently I turned 36. On my post about my birthday several of you asked me what advice I'd give you if you're in your twenties.  If I could sit across from my twenty-something self over coffee, I’d probably smile at how certain she thought life’s “five-year plan” was. The truth is…

The Pink Elephant There’s a pink elephant in the room — or maybe more accurately, lurking in the shadows  of this blog. And the funny thing is, it seems to be wearing an apron and carrying a set of tools. That’s right: I can’t help but notice how many masons seem to be reading what I wri…

Dear life,  It's been a long while since I've updated my audience on what's going on with me so I thought I best do this now while I have a space between series.  We just wrapped up Spiritual September and I've decided to do shocktober for October this year. There's a…

Wrapping Up Spiritual September 🌼 As September comes to a close, we pause to take a deep breath and look back on the journey we’ve walked together. Spiritual September wasn’t about reaching a finish line—it was about slowing down, noticing the sacred in the everyday, and finding ways t…