For some of us freedom is a luxury and the season of stuck basically sucks.
We feel trapped, suffocated and heavy.
It's hard to be in a season you can't see the way out of but know that this too will change in time.
Knowing that some day things will get better is great but what if the thing you're going through doesn't get better.
What if this season of stuck has quietly become your normal?
How do you survive when you really do have no way out ?
1. Decide to engineer an escape plan even if like me it's going to take a decade! You need to decide that you will get out of this even if it's a slow process.
The second you give your brain an engineered escape plan that sees you alive and thriving, you will suddenly go from stuck to seasonal again.
You can work with this painfully slow season, but you can't work with it if you don't have a plan to get up or out of your situation.
Again my own plan sees me waiting a decade to make it happen.
It helps to know I've got a plan.
2. Decide you won't die here.
I don't just mean not committing suicide I mean not letting yourself quietly get eroded.
The biggest challenge in a stuck season is not loosing yourself in the grief and pain of it all.
3. Know that by it's very nature life is about change.
I hope these tips help.
See you next time,
Stay savvy sweetie.
Love Hayl xxxx