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How To Reach Enlightenment

### Reaching Enlightenment: A Guide to Inner Peace and Higher Consciousness

Enlightenment has been a central pursuit in spiritual and philosophical traditions around the world, from Eastern philosophies like Buddhism, Taoism, and Hinduism to Western mysticism and modern psychology. Defined as a profound understanding of life’s nature and a liberation from suffering, enlightenment represents the ultimate form of self-awareness and inner peace. But achieving it is neither quick nor easy; it requires deep commitment, introspection, and the transformation of mind and spirit. Here is a guide on how to navigate this journey to enlightenment.

#### 1. Understand What Enlightenment Means to You

Enlightenment is a deeply personal experience, and it can mean different things to different people. Some view it as reaching a state of pure joy or inner peace, others as liberation from the ego, and others as an awakening to universal truths. In Hinduism and Buddhism, enlightenment is described as transcending the illusion of a separate self, reaching a state of unity with the cosmos. Clarity about what enlightenment means to you will help guide your path.

**Ask yourself:**
- What do I want to understand or achieve through this journey?
- How do I define inner peace, wisdom, or unity?

#### 2. Commit to Self-Inquiry

Self-inquiry is a foundational practice for anyone seeking enlightenment. Question your assumptions, beliefs, and fears to uncover your true self beyond the roles and labels society has placed on you. Begin by asking, “Who am I?” beyond your name, occupation, and personal history. This question leads you inward to discover the aspects of yourself that are constant and unchanging, beyond the fluctuations of daily life.

**Methods of Self-Inquiry:**
- **Meditation**: Develop a daily meditation practice to quiet the mind, making it easier to observe thoughts without attachment. Vipassana, Zen, or mindfulness meditation are great starting points.
- **Journaling**: Write about your emotions, desires, fears, and beliefs to deepen your self-awareness.
- **Contemplation**: Practice holding questions in mind without needing immediate answers. Let insights arise naturally.

#### 3. Cultivate Mindfulness and Presence

Mindfulness, or being fully present in the moment, is essential in reaching enlightenment. This practice helps break habitual patterns of thought and emotion that can keep you trapped in negativity or illusion. When you’re present, you’re better able to see things as they are, rather than as you wish or fear them to be.

**Practical Tips for Mindfulness:**
- Focus on your breath, paying attention to its rhythm and flow, to anchor yourself in the present moment.
- Bring mindfulness into everyday activities like eating, walking, or listening, noticing the details without rushing.
- Practice “letting go” of distractions, judgments, and worries to enhance your ability to remain in the here and now.

#### 4. Detach from the Ego

The ego, our sense of identity, is a powerful force that can keep us stuck in cycles of desire, attachment, and fear. Enlightenment requires transcending this sense of separateness. Learning to observe the ego, rather than identifying with it, is a profound step toward enlightenment. Many people find that the less they are attached to their own desires and self-image, the more they experience true freedom.

**Practices for Ego Detachment:**
- **Meditate on impermanence**: Reflect on the transient nature of all things to reduce attachment to objects, people, and ideas.
- **Practice humility and gratitude**: Shift focus from self-centered thoughts to appreciation for life and others.
- **Observe your inner dialogue**: Catch yourself when you’re overly critical, defensive, or needy. Learn to witness these reactions without identifying with them.

#### 5. Embrace Compassion and Love

A heart filled with compassion is essential for enlightenment. Compassion opens you to understanding others without judgment and expands your awareness beyond the self. This creates a sense of unity and interconnectedness with the world, which is key in spiritual awakening.

**Ways to Cultivate Compassion:**
- **Loving-kindness meditation**: Visualize and send love to yourself, friends, family, and even people you struggle with. Extend it eventually to all beings.
- **Practice empathy**: Listen deeply to others, truly aiming to understand their perspective and feelings.
- **Serve others selflessly**: Acts of kindness can reduce the grip of the ego, opening the way to deeper spiritual experiences.

#### 6. Study Spiritual and Philosophical Texts

Reading the teachings of those who have attained enlightenment can serve as a valuable guide. While each path is unique, these texts can provide you with insights and practical tools. Scriptures like the **Bhagavad Gita**, **Tao Te Ching**, **Dhammapada**, and the works of modern sages like Eckhart Tolle or Ram Dass offer timeless wisdom.

**Some Valuable Texts to Explore:**
- **Bhagavad Gita** (Hinduism) – for insights on karma and devotion
- **Dhammapada** (Buddhism) – for lessons on mindfulness and right action
- **Tao Te Ching** (Taoism) – for understanding the harmony of life’s natural flow
- **The Power of Now** by Eckhart Tolle – for an introduction to living in the present moment

#### 7. Let Go of Attachments

Attachment to ideas, possessions, or people can anchor you to suffering. Enlightenment involves a practice of non-attachment, where you engage fully with life without becoming attached to outcomes. By loosening your grip on what you want or fear, you open yourself to greater peace and adaptability.

**Practices to Release Attachment:**
- **Reflect on impermanence**: Understand that all things change, and clinging to anything as permanent leads to suffering.
- **Embrace detachment, not indifference**: Love and care, but recognize that everything is subject to change.
- **Meditate on desires**: Notice desires as they arise, but resist acting on every impulse, cultivating a sense of contentment in the present moment.

#### 8. Practice Acceptance and Surrender

Enlightenment requires surrender—accepting life as it is, without resisting or trying to control every aspect. This is not passive resignation but an active choice to let go of unnecessary resistance, which often fuels inner conflict and suffering.

**Steps for Surrender:**
- **Focus on acceptance**: When faced with difficulties, practice acknowledging reality without denial.
- **Recognize the limits of control**: Trust that you don’t need to control everything for life to unfold meaningfully.
- **Flow with life**: Embrace change as a constant and respond with flexibility rather than rigid attachment.

#### 9. Commit to the Journey

The path to enlightenment is lifelong, requiring patience, resilience, and humility. Be gentle with yourself, recognizing that enlightenment isn’t a final destination but an ongoing process of becoming more aware, compassionate, and open.

**Remember:**
- Progress may be slow or challenging; honor the effort you put in.
- Celebrate small moments of insight and peace as milestones on your journey.
- Know that enlightenment may come unexpectedly, as it is often realized in the quiet simplicity of being fully present.

### Conclusion

Enlightenment isn’t something to chase or force; it is a natural unfolding that occurs when you remove the mental and emotional barriers obscuring your true self. By practicing mindfulness, compassion, self-inquiry, and acceptance, you gradually peel away the layers of conditioning, allowing your inner light to shine. As you deepen your commitment, remember that enlightenment is both the journey and the destination, manifesting in each present moment of awareness and connection.

Great Books For Savvy Artists.

So I talked it over with the king, and we've decided that there's something to be learnt from recent events. One tiny little lesson before I give you what you came for, our book recommendations for savvy artist's life and business. I read a lot so I have a lot to say in just a moment but before we get there.

It doesn't feel right to overload my awesome readers with content after such a heavy post like the last post. Click here if you didn't see it.

So instead of that, we have decided to put out today's post celebrating world book day, then leave posting for a while to give time and space and respect to our loved ones currently grieving.

Hope that's cool with you guys!

Anyway, 's let's get on with it, shall we?

I have decided to put this in 3 sections and there are roughly 12 books in all. Again I remind you pretty much all of these are affiliate links, this means that we may make a little tiny commission if you buy any of the books we suggest, but this will be no extra cost to you. It basically just means we get more jaffa cakes and hot chocolate to keep churning out content to inspire and encourage you guys.

Sound good?

Great!


Our First Section Is Life


Ok, guys, the whole point of these books is to help you be a better you. A better you will likely be able to produce better art. Get it?

Quick note, there's nothing wrong with the you, you are now, but we as humans are always moving towards something, it may as well be something better.

Here's the list.

Off-Balance On Purpose - Dan Thurmon I believe that work/life balance is a myth that can interfere with our art. Dan explains what's better to do instead of trying to balance things. 

Shut Up, Stop Whining, and Get a Life: A Kick-Butt Approach to a Better Life This book was life-changing for me. If you are fed up of fluffy little self-help books and need something with a few more nuts to chew on. This is your book. Loved it! Still, live by many of the principles in this book.

Calm - Fearne Cotton  If you want something a little more gentle then Fearne Cotton has got you covered. All of her books are fab, but this is my favourite.

Feel The Fear And Do It Anyway - Susan Jeffers This was such a good book that really helped me get over myself so that I could just get on with getting my art up online. It's been one heck of a journey ever since, and I owe that in part to the lessons and simple writing style of the late, great Susan Jeffers.

Our Second Section Is Business

This is my personal favourite section and narrowing this down to just 4 was hard, but here's the best of the best when it comes to business books.

Craft a Creative Business: Making & Marketing a Successful Creative Business This is such a good little handbook for all artists wanting to sell their work.

She Means Business: Turn Your Ideas into Reality and Become a Wildly Successful Entrepreneur Pretty self-explanatory. Enjoy the surprise.

Small is the New Big - Seth Godin  - Seriously if you haven't read any of Seth Godin's books you should! Bonus because I can't not include it Linchpin that book revolutionised my business!

Secrets of Closing the Sale by Zig Ziglar It's been a hot minute but from what I remember, it's pretty good.




Our Final Section Is Art

So for this section, the listings are not going to be explained because I want to list a fair few and I know that these books will impact different types of artists in different ways. Enjoy guys! 


The Simpsons Handbook Secret Tips from the Pros 

How To Draw Comics The Marvel Way

How To Draw Stupid And Other Essentials Of Cartooning By Kyle Baker

Manga Martial Arts: Over 50 Basic Lessons For Drawing The World's Most Popular Fighting Style

The Animator's Survival Kit (Paperback) Richard E. Williams


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How To Do It All (and still be relatively sane)



Self Love For Bloggers



There is a delicate balance as a blogger, between reading or watching things because it's research for our own blog, and watching and reading things just because we enjoy it.


 I am convinced true life balance is a complete illusion.



I have believed perfect work/life balance was a myth for many years work-life/balance requires perfection, this is an unrealistic goal to be chasing. 

None of us is perfect so why chase perfection?


With that in mind, the title of this post claims the content you are reading contains advice on how to juggle life as a blogger. 

It does. 


Trust me I am getting to that, but before I give you my tips for managing blogging and life, I first needed to set the scene just so I can give you what I think is the number one most valuable self-loving thing you can do for yourself as a blogger, and indeed a person.


Don't put so much pressure on yourself,
 take some time every day just for you. 


You can't make your blog as awesome as you want to if you don't have the energy to take care of you. 


Only then will you be on top of your game to take care of your blog or whatever else you need to do.


1. Remember the three C's

  1. Consistency 
  2. Connections
  3. Cut it down!
The 3 Cs of Sane Living



Consistently putting our goals into little tasks will make life a lot less stressful and increase productivity but we were designed for a relationship so there will come a point where we can no longer do things on our own.

How does this apply to bloggers?

We can consistently create all the content we want to, but if we don't network we won't likely have any readers!


1. Building relationships is a beautiful necessity.



If your blog is your business, then I can understand why you feel like you want to do everything yourself I get it, trust me I do. 

It is your blog and you want to make it what you want it to be. That is more than fair enough, but if you reach out to other with different skills, and focus on your own strengths you will make some new friends, create a more professional feel on your blog and be less stressed because you have delegated those things you're not so good at to other people.

2. Mix it up!

Set some time to research how a bunch of different people handle juggling blogging and life, then cherry-pick the tips you like, find what works for you and create your own unique schedule that is perfect for you.

3. Preparation is everything

The one thing that everyone needs to do in order to have a schedule that will be productive is planning ahead. There are many ways to do this. 

Some people schedule their blog posts, others have life management files, others still use calendars, agendas or dairies and then there are those people like me that do all of the above. 

Whatever you decide to use to manage your life, make sure you do plan ahead. 

Knowing you already handled certain things frees up time to do other things and is an excellent stress killer!

4. See yourself as a whole person and plan accordingly.

If you see yourself as just flesh and bones and forget about taking care of yourself emotionally and psychologically then your body will suffer for this.

Make sure before you take on new tasks that you are mentally, emotionally and physically up to the challenge at hand. If not then don't be afraid to say no. 

We've come full circle, it really is super important to take care of you before you worry about all the demands of life.





5. Keep it simple.

You knew this one was coming, this entire blog is about simplicity after all!

 The key thing you need to remember when creating a plan to manage your life is how your plan is serving you. A good management plan should be simple, help you be productive and on task to complete your goals and NOT a burden! 


There is a big difference between being stretched or challenged and feeling overwhelmed or burdened, but that's a whole other post.


Anyway, I need to follow my own advice and look after myself and go eat something so I will leave it there.




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How To Do It All And Still Be Sane

Self-love for Bloggers

Dear Awesome readers,




I strongly believe that we are all three-part beings. 

We are spirits, with souls living in flesh cases called bodies. Your spirit and soul live forever, but your body does not.  This belief guides what I am about to say below, but you don't have to believe this in order to get the point of what I am going to share with you, I've just included my own belief for background purposes.


This is a concept I like to call simple temple living. 
This is based on the idea that we are 

OK, with that said let's jump into today's post.

Let's start by defining what I believe about each element of our three parts. I could be wrong, but this is how I understand things.

The Soul - Designed for connection with others, we are relational beings. It is also the centre of our emotions and if we hurt inside it's usually the soul that feels the pain.

The Spirit - The essence of you, your passions, creativity and desire for something more comes from this part of us. It is designed for connection with a higher power ( God) spiritual things that happen to us are often more real than this earth's reality. We are designed for relationship without a creator because we are created in his image, and this is the part of us that cries out and hears from God.

The Flesh - The car, or whatever transport you want to call it, that gives us movement and the ability to physically feel in this world. The bad side of the flesh wants what it wants, it is selfish and has no interest in a higher power, it hates waiting for things and has many sinful tendencies. 

If we have a relationship with God, this part of us will never ever want to have anything to do with it. If we allow this part of us to take the reigns of our lives and do what it wants, we will always end up in a mess somewhere along the line. 

The good side of the flesh is our body, it's not wrong to look after our bodies, in fact, it's really important that we do. Our bodies are the house for our souls and spirits and the first part of us the outside world will see, therefore it is really important to look after them, not to mention if we don't look after our bodies we will get sick. We know this, I'm not saying anything that you haven't heard before...but where I am in life right now I need the reminder and maybe you do too.

This, in essence, is what I call  Simple Temple Living.



It is possible to have spiritual, soulish and fleshly desires, the three intertwine and can war against each other within us, however, it is possible to get these three parts of you to get along, the next post is going to focus on how to do that.

For now, though, I think that's about it,

Hope you are all having an awesome day!