Daisy Change

I've given this a lot of thought and prayer. I've decided to take you through the Daisy Change Method which is our signature art of change management program, here in this blog.  As the year comes to a close, you may be thinking about the year ahead. Starting to plan for what's coming and think about what you want in life. December is often a month of reflection.  With that in mind let's get started on our art of change management process.  First we need to get really clear on what we want and where we are going.  Here are 12 questions to answer for yourself as the year closes.  1. What have I learnt over the last year?  2. How have I growen over the last year?  3. What would I change about the last year?  4. Who do I think I am now?  5. What needs to change over the coming year?  6. What creative solutions can I see for the changes needed in the coming year?  7. How am I going to go about implementing this change?  8. What are...

So I talked it over with the king, and we've decided that there's something to be learnt from recent events. One tiny little lesson before I give you what you came for, our book recommendations for savvy artist's life and business. I read a lot so I have a lot to say in just a moment but before we get there. It doesn't feel right to overload my awesome readers with content after such a heavy post like the last post. C lick here if you didn't see it. So instead of that, we have decided to put out today's post celebrating world book day, then leave posting for a while to give time and space and respect to our loved ones currently grieving. Hope that's cool with you guys! Anyway, 's let's get on with it, shall we? I have decided to put this in 3 sections and there are roughly 12 books in all. Again I remind you pretty much all of these are affiliate links, this means that we may make a little tiny commission if you buy any of the books we suggest, but ...

Dear Readers, Happy New Year!  In order to help you make  your year as successful as possible, I have compiled a list of my tips and go to resources to help kick start  your business. This is my new year gift to you.  You are welcome.  Before I get started, please feel free to read only the sections that apply to you, although you are very welcome to read the whole thing. If you have any questions please do get in touch, I'm more than happy to help you if I can. Okay then, let's get started by getting the longest section out-of-the-way! 1.Preparation Is Everything. Organisation is very important to ensure that your business runs as smoothly as possible and you don't waste valuable time.That's pretty much a given, but what people don't usually think of is how important it is to have a backup plan. It's really important to spend some time working out what you will do if your business starts to fail. Do you have some ideas of how you could get your business back o...

There is a delicate balance as a blogger, between reading or watching things because it's research for our own blog, and watching and reading things just because we enjoy it.  I am convinced true life balance is a complete illusion. I have believed perfect work/life balance was a myth for many years  work-life/balance requires perfection, this is an  unrealistic goal to be chasing.  None of us is perfect so why chase perfection? With that in mind, the title of this post claims the content you are reading contains advice on how to juggle life as a blogger.  It does.  Trust me I am getting to that, but before I give you my tips for managing blogging and life, I first needed to set the scene just so I can give you what I think is the number one most valuable self-loving thing you can do for yourself as a blogger, and indeed a person. Don't put so much pressure on yourself,  take some time every day just for you.  You can't make your blog as awe...

Trigger Warning - Low mood, depression, pain, suicide, past hurts, written about with the intent of encouragement  Disclaimer - As always I still recommend seeking professional advice as to the first course of action if you are feeling low or depressed. All advice given is from experience only. Lambi Says - Don't let depression or anxiety beat you up you got th i s, fight to win! If you have read my last few posts you will know that as of late I have been suffering from depression.  Yet again Jet and his friends had me in a cage that was locked from the inside.  (Jet is the name I give to depression because when it shows up for me it is usually jet black) Sometimes life throws things at us that we really don't expect. When this happens we have to decide if we are going to retreat within ourselves or get out there and serve others.   It can be the hardest thing to push yourself to think of others when you're feeling really low, but it's the very thing we need to ...

I've been demonitsed.  Coinsidence? I think not.  Thing is my silence can't be bought. I made it to the top of the system to witness it without taking a single death oath. So come at me brotherhood if you dare! Anything you do against me just proves your existence to my audience.  Oh yes and I know about how you like to gas light your victims but that won't work on me.  Four years ago, giving up my voice was my choice. Today though, you've given me no reason to stay silent.  There are two camps within the structure of the top. There are those who are evil for evil evils sake and then there's the strategically evil.  You have your witches, warlocks, priestess, grand dames, mothers of darkness and other such evil for evils sake.  Then the strategic evil, packaged in a slick suit and armed with a complex plan and a spiderweb of a network that's more confusing then a ball of tangled string.  This one knows that one but then this one is secretly workin...

 I'm assuming that you are brotherhood reading this right now. So I don't need to give you a basic Christian gospel you know it and Lucifer has you fighting against it and if he doesn't you're not high level enough to know about the secrets of the serpent.  So here's a alternative version of a gospel message for brotherhood, sisterhood and illuminati members. Ready to be refreshed?   The kingdom of heaven never came here. They killed the king. So God changes tactics , you stop hearing about the kingdom of heaven after Jesus.  The gospel of grace becomes the narrative, grace is amazing but it allows for flaws, understanding that is not possible to live only under the kingdom of god. We are citizans of two kingdoms, we live in the world but we are of the kingdom of heaven. Example, taxes.  God has to have grace because his religion is holy agency. He is so pro free will but also expects us to be made holy through Christ and to try to live up to holy standards...

This is new. I'm writing this post on my phone.  Anyway, we are now in January, which for us here at Daisy Change means Japlananery, the time of the year we set aside to plan out the rest of the year.  Our big theme on Daisy Change this year is moving forward and building with God. Or in our case rebuilding.  Before we can build however , we need to evaluate where we are right now. Some things are working for us , others are not but I'm not going to stress the stuff that hasn't worked.  See I know the dirty little secret about marketing and business.  There is no such thing as one size fits all in business and especially not online. You can try a certain strategy and it may work well for you, but that same strategy is going to be all wrong for someone else.  If you have tried multiple strategies and not found the one that clicks with you, don't worry the right strategy is out there. It just takes time to find it.  There are ofcourse, things you can do ...

Ok so this isn't the kind of post I usually write but it is a needed one. See I have decided to sit with the fact that Daisy Change over the years has become more of a ministry then a business, and that's fine. With that though comes the fact that you the silent readers are looking to connect to God not me.   You read my posts, maybe like them .but mostly I have to rely on my stats to see what has been going on. I just wanted to say hello to you and to thank you for reading my work.  I know that the nature of my work is that people from fringe lifestyles are reading and I know you can't be seen to be reading this so you're doing it in private, maybe with a torch under a blanket. Simply because people just don't talk about the things I do in polite society.  I think that its time I tell you that it is a honor and a privilege to serve your authentic faith journey.  The thing is, because I know my content is getting views and I can see that its impacting you even if on...

Moving on and moving forward,  they are the same thing, right? Well actually no. Once you have chosen to see life as seasonal and started chasing fulfilment rather than happiness, the next step toward success is moving on from moving on. Let me explain. Moving on gives the impression you’ve buried the past and now you're going to build something new on its grave and pretend it never happened. Moving forward is acknowledging the past, for what it is , learning what you can, and then deciding that it doesn’t define you and your still going to move forward with your dreams and in life because nothing can hold you back. You won’t give anything permission to do so. Good on you! You can move on from things and still not be over it, but hiding from your feelings is not going to help you . If you bury half-open wounds then poison will fester beneath your scars. You gotta make sure that you’re not running from your yourself. Trust me it’s exhausting and only leads to making laps around th...

People that chase happiness will never be happy for very long because it's more about the chase than the object in question. Happiness is an emotion, it comes and goes because life is up and down.  Chasing happiness usually leads to unhealthy people with dead dreams and more debt then they know what to do with! I am not suggesting that the desire to be happy or even the pursuit of happiness is wrong . What I am against is, the idea that life is all about happiness, that we should be aiming for it in every area of our lives and if we don't somehow that makes us a failure and if we can't hold on to happiness, well then that is even worse! Happiness is an emotion, it is fleeting, I like to think of it like a butterfly, here one moment, gone the next.   Chasing happiness will never bring fulfilment, it will lead to frustration.  You would be much better of chasing fulfilment. It is possible to be  fulfilled but not happy.  Chasing fulfilment requires work...

  Hello and welcome to a new series!      I canceled Shocktober again this year because to be honest, this is better.  The goal here is very simple. I've been suffering very badly with fatigue and exhaustion. (If you know anything about the season I just came through, you will know why) The goal with this series is simply to organize my life in the month of October.  Then tell you how it's been going in a diary style series. At the moment, I'm not taking blogging to seriously, I just need to keep my skills sharp. A diary style series is a great way to do exactly that.  I get to provide value to the readers I have while taking a more casual approach to my blog.   We need to cover the start point so that we can see how I progress through this series. As I said, I've been suffering with fatigue.  This is largely down to the medication I'm currently on, Again the season I just came from was intense!  I just went back to univer...