Holy Masonry - The Art Of Building With God

By    November 08, 2024 //
This series has been a long time coming and I intend for it to be a long one. 

The opposite of building a empire for Satan is building Gods Kingdom. 

I can't put scripture references in my work because it would be banned in certain countries so I'm going to retell biblical examples in my own words. 

The first step in holy masonry is surrunder. 
We surrunder to God and let Him break and remake us into something He can work with. 

We die to our flesh in order to come alive to Christ and this is done through prayer. We ask Jesus to mold us and make us acceptable to the father. 

The second step in holy masonry is self image. 
We accept that we are wondifully made and beautiful to our father, we look at our gifts and talents as an extension of ourselves and offer them in service to the Father. 

The third step in holy masonry is we acknowledge that we are better together. We seek strong partnerships to fulfil our builds of self, our projects and Gods kingdom at large. 

With the mix of these three steps we have completed the identity portion of holy masonry. 


My Bloggers Tool Box

By    November 03, 2024 //




One of the key things bloggers need to do in order to keep working towards their dreams is to keep learning new skills to grow and expand.


I have been using Udemy for this for many years now, here are a few of my favourite courses that have made a very big difference to my blog and business. 


Quick note some of  these are affiliate links, if you do decide to do one of these awesome courses, you will not only learn great skills to further your business, but the small commission I will earn from these recommendations will go straight back into making Daisy Change as awesome as possible for all fo you lovely readers. 


I love Udemy for online learning. It's awesome because this platform lets you work at your own pace and many of the instructors are really lovely and very helpful. They have courses in multiple languages and the slick U.I is very user-friendly. 



Business, Marketing & Entrepreneurship Experts  

The Essential Guide to Entrepreneurship by Guy Kawasaki 

An Entire MBA in 1 Course: Award Winning Business School Prof ** #1 Best Selling Business Course! ** Everything You Need to Know About Business from Start-up to IPO 

Seth Godin's Freelancer Course Become Remarkable, Find Better Clients, and Do Work that matters 


Think Like a Leader with Brian Tracy  


Selling More by Talking Less 


Business Coach Certification Digital Marketing 


A blog for a Living: Complete Blogging Training [2019 Update] 


Affiliate Programs & Extra Earnings 


I use very few in this category but the ones I have I am very happy with, I'm sure you will be too. 


Viglink - I mostly use this for this website.  


MagicLinks - I mostly use this for social media. 


https://www.Swagbucks -


More to come, along with books and other resources.....


Watch this space! 























Great Books For Savvy Artists.

By    November 03, 2024 //
So I talked it over with the king, and we've decided that there's something to be learnt from recent events. One tiny little lesson before I give you what you came for, our book recommendations for savvy artist's life and business. I read a lot so I have a lot to say in just a moment but before we get there.

It doesn't feel right to overload my awesome readers with content after such a heavy post like the last post. Click here if you didn't see it.

So instead of that, we have decided to put out today's post celebrating world book day, then leave posting for a while to give time and space and respect to our loved ones currently grieving.

Hope that's cool with you guys!

Anyway, 's let's get on with it, shall we?

I have decided to put this in 3 sections and there are roughly 12 books in all. Again I remind you pretty much all of these are affiliate links, this means that we may make a little tiny commission if you buy any of the books we suggest, but this will be no extra cost to you. It basically just means we get more jaffa cakes and hot chocolate to keep churning out content to inspire and encourage you guys.

Sound good?

Great!


Our First Section Is Life


Ok, guys, the whole point of these books is to help you be a better you. A better you will likely be able to produce better art. Get it?

Quick note, there's nothing wrong with the you, you are now, but we as humans are always moving towards something, it may as well be something better.

Here's the list.

Off-Balance On Purpose - Dan Thurmon I believe that work/life balance is a myth that can interfere with our art. Dan explains what's better to do instead of trying to balance things. 

Shut Up, Stop Whining, and Get a Life: A Kick-Butt Approach to a Better Life This book was life-changing for me. If you are fed up of fluffy little self-help books and need something with a few more nuts to chew on. This is your book. Loved it! Still, live by many of the principles in this book.

Calm - Fearne Cotton  If you want something a little more gentle then Fearne Cotton has got you covered. All of her books are fab, but this is my favourite.

Feel The Fear And Do It Anyway - Susan Jeffers This was such a good book that really helped me get over myself so that I could just get on with getting my art up online. It's been one heck of a journey ever since, and I owe that in part to the lessons and simple writing style of the late, great Susan Jeffers.

Our Second Section Is Business

This is my personal favourite section and narrowing this down to just 4 was hard, but here's the best of the best when it comes to business books.

Craft a Creative Business: Making & Marketing a Successful Creative Business This is such a good little handbook for all artists wanting to sell their work.

She Means Business: Turn Your Ideas into Reality and Become a Wildly Successful Entrepreneur Pretty self-explanatory. Enjoy the surprise.

Small is the New Big - Seth Godin  - Seriously if you haven't read any of Seth Godin's books you should! Bonus because I can't not include it Linchpin that book revolutionised my business!

Secrets of Closing the Sale by Zig Ziglar It's been a hot minute but from what I remember, it's pretty good.




Our Final Section Is Art

So for this section, the listings are not going to be explained because I want to list a fair few and I know that these books will impact different types of artists in different ways. Enjoy guys! 


The Simpsons Handbook Secret Tips from the Pros 

How To Draw Comics The Marvel Way

How To Draw Stupid And Other Essentials Of Cartooning By Kyle Baker

Manga Martial Arts: Over 50 Basic Lessons For Drawing The World's Most Popular Fighting Style

The Animator's Survival Kit (Paperback) Richard E. Williams


If you like my style of books, please come follow me over on GoodReads

My Tips For Business + Resources (That Totally Work For Blogging)

By    November 03, 2024 //
Dear Readers,

Happy New Year! 

In order to help you make  your year as successful as possible, I have compiled a list of my tips and go to resources to help kick start  your business. This is my new year gift to you. 

You are welcome. 


Before I get started, please feel free to read only the sections that apply to you, although you are very welcome to read the whole thing.

If you have any questions please do get in touch, I'm more than happy to help you if I can.

Okay then, let's get started by getting the longest section out-of-the-way!

1.Preparation Is Everything.



Organisation is very important to ensure that your business runs as smoothly as possible and you don't waste valuable time.That's pretty much a given, but what people don't usually think of is how important it is to have a backup plan. It's really important to spend some time working out what you will do if your business starts to fail.

Do you have some ideas of how you could get your business back on track?

Do you know where you're going? 

Gaining clarity on where you are going is super important and this needs to happen right at the beginning of your business, preferably before launch.

If you fail to do this, you will be setting yourself up for failure.

Also be aware that no matter how amazing your business is, not everyone is going to like you or believe in you, that is completely okay, they are entitled to their opinion, but don't let what people, even people in your close circle, think of you take you off base.

Again this is far less likely to happen if you plan for it. Have some polite but firm statements on your position rehearsed and written down for when you can't just ignore the naysayers ( because maybe the naysayer in question is a family member)

Make your statement, stay polite and focused but if the person questioning you refuses to listen, don't let that get to you. It can be so tempting the early stages of a new blog or business, to give up when people you care about don't share your dream but remember this is your dream, don't expect anyone else to see it the way you do because they won't. ( especially if your dream goes against the grain of what is deemed a proper job these days)

All of this perpetration stage could be covered if you make a business plan, even if your business or blog is not intended for making a profit, it's still a really important step. There are lots of different ways to do this, it's even possible to make a one page business plan, how you do it is not important. It's just really important that you take some time to do a bit of planning. It makes all the difference.



2.Have A Good Key-Chain.





There is not just one key to success in business, there are several but establishing a really strong network is really vital because sometimes the key you are looking for, is a person.

Not only is a good idea to connect with people in your industry, or similar industries via social media, but it is also a good idea to have a look at your friendship circle and see if you know anyone that could help you in a certain area of your business. One of my closest friends is a marketing expert. Another of my close friends is really good at coding ( something I hate) and others still are artists, writers of a different field and fantastic administrators and researchers.

Life is about helping each other and growing, if you think about  blogging, what this looks like is simply leaving genuine comments on other people's blogs. People are far more likely to check out your work if they see you care about what they have to say.

Also be engaged with your audience, if you get comments, tweets etc...make sure you reply.

3.Be True To You



I know I just said that networking is important and it is, but at the same time you need to make sure that you are only networking with people who enrich your life and business.

Once you have established the direction of your blog or business, then you should know what kind of people you want to be connected with, connect with the people who make you happy to have them in your contact list.

Don't feel like you have to talk to everyone because they might possibly be a future customer. Your focus matters but so does your health, convictions and happiness, don't compromise on any of these just to gain a new customer. 

You may gain that customer but you will lose many more that liked the real you and that is just really sad.

You will figure out your focus when you are true to your own heart because this brings out your passion and passion is something that impacts the success of your business greatly.


4.Move With The Times.



Trends change and grow, they evolve and take twists and turns, its important for anyone in business to make sure that they are keeping up with the trends of today so they can create the demand of tomorrow. 

There is no point in blogging about how to use video cassettes because they are now redundant for the most part.

A good way to make sure that your business is current is to see what else your customers are paying attention to and then what kind of content your competition is producing. Amazon comments can be great for this.

 

5.Balance it baby!



Life is not meant to be all work or all play. We need a balance of both in order to feel fulfilled.  I absolutely detest the idea of chasing happiness. I believe in chasing fulfillment instead. A key way of doing that is by living in the moment and enjoying the life you have and the people who are in it, and making sure you take care of yourself too. Yes, building your business is important to you, but if you don't have anyone to share your success with, then what is the point?

Family and friends matter, don't neglect them in pursuit of success. It's not worth it!

Also, the more enriched your life is by things outside of your business, the more you will have the energy to focus on your business.

There will be times when you have to make sacrifices but don't work too hard, burning out is not going to be a good thing for you or your business.

If you don't check out any of my other resource recommendations please do check out this one, it's really important you understand what working too much could do to you.

Please take care.

6.Don't be Beige.


Standing out is the only way to make people take notice of you. Don't be beige it's boring. Beige stays in the comfort box, doesn't take risks and doesn't make a difference. Some of you reading this will only be wanting to make success from your business, but some of you may well be looking to make history.

Did beige ever do that?

No, not unless it counts for being the most boring and depressing colour ever.
Being undecided is just not an option if you want to make it in the business world. Taking risks is just part of the deal. Running a business is hard work,beige would take the short cut, stay in the middle and be satisfied with less than the best.

Don't do that. 

If fear is an issue for you then Susan Jeffers book could be as life changing for you as it was for me.

7.If You Want Customers To Care, Your Customer Care Needs To Be Top Notch



You've heard it before but taking care of your customers should be your number one priority, you wouldn't even have a business without them. Again, this comes into the business integrity issue, but more than that it's about making someone's day and ultimately getting them to keep coming back and tell others about your business and how you gave them such good customer service!

 If you look after them, how can they not come back?

 

8. Be Tigger 



Those of you who know me in real life will know that I am the girl who has been knocked down more times than I can count,but I am also the girl who has gotten up more times than most. You have to.

Tigger never ever stops bouncing, you shouldn't either. 

You can't predict what is going to happen in life but you are responsible for how you react. Get up and keep going, if you have a dream then make it happen, no one else is going to do it for you and you are the right person for the job.

Business, like life is a roller-coaster, and you do have to learn to roll with the punches, but it is worth it in the long run. If being your own boss is the thing you need to do to be fulfilled in life, then get up and make something awesome happen!

Remember any issue you have in business is likely to already have been experienced by someone else and chances are that someone has written a book or uploaded a video on that very topic. Don't be afraid to reach out, it can create great working relationships  and is good for your health, well-being and business.

We are designed to grow, if we stay still too long, we usually wind up falling and looking back. Also, don't neglect your spiritual growth and take some time out just to relax and be at peace. 
Don't think you know it all, stay teachable and keep learning, keep growing and make your business awesome, because you can.

You just need to believe that and get to work.


Over the next few months we will be unpacking these tips once every two weeks.

Why so spaced out?

Because I want you to have ample time to apply each tip. Rushing this will only lead to a crash and I don't  want that for you, so please do take your time to use these tips as starting point to dive in deeper in each subject.

See you next post!

Love Hayley

xXx

How To Do It All (and still be relatively sane)

By    November 03, 2024 //


Self Love For Bloggers



There is a delicate balance as a blogger, between reading or watching things because it's research for our own blog, and watching and reading things just because we enjoy it.


 I am convinced true life balance is a complete illusion.



I have believed perfect work/life balance was a myth for many years work-life/balance requires perfection, this is an unrealistic goal to be chasing. 

None of us is perfect so why chase perfection?


With that in mind, the title of this post claims the content you are reading contains advice on how to juggle life as a blogger. 

It does. 

Trust me I am getting to that, but before I give you my tips for managing blogging and life, I first needed to set the scene just so I can give you what I think is the number one most valuable self-loving thing you can do for yourself as a blogger, and indeed a person.


Don't put so much pressure on yourself,
 take some time every day just for you. 


You can't make your blog as awesome as you want to if you don't have the energy to take care of you. 

Only then will you be on top of your game to take care of your blog or whatever else you need to do.


1. Remember the three C's

  1. Consistency 
  2. Connections
  3. Cut it down!
The 3 Cs of Sane Living



Consistently putting our goals into little tasks will make life a lot less stressful and increase productivity but we were designed for a relationship so there will come a point where we can no longer do things on our own.

How does this apply to bloggers?

We can consistently create all the content we want to, but if we don't network we won't likely have any readers!


1. Building relationships is a beautiful necessity.



If your blog is your business, then I can understand why you feel like you want to do everything yourself I get it, trust me I do. 

It is your blog and you want to make it what you want it to be. That is more than fair enough, but if you reach out to other with different skills, and focus on your own strengths you will make some new friends, create a more professional feel on your blog and be less stressed because you have delegated those things you're not so good at to other people.

2. Mix it up!

Set some time to research how a bunch of different people handle juggling blogging and life, then cherry-pick the tips you like, find what works for you and create your own unique schedule that is perfect for you.

3. Preparation is everything

The one thing that everyone needs to do in order to have a schedule that will be productive is planning ahead. There are many ways to do this. 

Some people schedule their blog posts, others have life management files, others still use calendars, agendas or dairies and then there are those people like me that do all of the above. 

Whatever you decide to use to manage your life, make sure you do plan ahead. 

Knowing you already handled certain things frees up time to do other things and is an excellent stress killer!

4. See yourself as a whole person and plan accordingly.

If you see yourself as just flesh and bones and forget about taking care of yourself emotionally and psychologically then your body will suffer for this.

Make sure before you take on new tasks that you are mentally, emotionally and physically up to the challenge at hand. If not then don't be afraid to say no. 

We've come full circle, it really is super important to take care of you before you worry about all the demands of life.





5. Keep it simple.

You knew this one was coming, this entire blog is about simplicity after all!

 The key thing you need to remember when creating a plan to manage your life is how your plan is serving you. A good management plan should be simple, help you be productive and on task to complete your goals and NOT a burden! 

There is a big difference between being stretched or challenged and feeling overwhelmed or burdened, but that's a whole other post.

Anyway, I need to follow my own advice and look after myself and go eat something so I will leave it there.




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Transforming Your Wardrobe for Joy: A Journey to a Happier You

By    May 27, 2024 //

 Transforming Your Wardrobe for Joy: A Journey to a Happier You


Clothing is more than just fabric that covers our bodies; it’s a powerful tool for self-expression, confidence, and joy. The clothes we wear can significantly impact our mood and how we interact with the world. If you find yourself standing in front of a closet full of clothes yet feeling like you have nothing to wear, it might be time to revamp your wardrobe with joy in mind. Here’s how you can transform your wardrobe to bring more happiness into your life.


 1. Declutter with Purpose


The first step to a joyful wardrobe is decluttering. Go through each item in your closet and ask yourself whether it brings you joy. This concept, popularized by Marie Kondo's KonMari method, encourages you to keep only those pieces that spark joy. Letting go of clothes that no longer serve you or make you happy can be liberating. Donate or sell items that don’t fit, are out of style, or simply don’t make you feel good.


 2. Identify Your Style and Needs


Take some time to reflect on your personal style and the needs of your lifestyle. Are you drawn to vibrant colors and bold patterns, or do you prefer neutral tones and classic cuts? Your wardrobe should reflect your personality and make you feel authentic. Additionally, consider your daily activities and ensure your clothes are practical and versatile. A balanced wardrobe should cater to your professional, casual, and special occasion needs.


 3. Invest in Quality, Not Quantity


Quality over quantity is a mantra for a joyful wardrobe. Instead of buying multiple pieces of fast fashion, invest in high-quality, timeless pieces that will last. Well-made clothes not only look better but also feel better to wear. When you invest in quality, you’re more likely to cherish and take care of your clothes, leading to a more sustainable and joyful wardrobe.


 4. Incorporate Color and Texture


Colors can significantly affect our mood. Incorporate colors that make you happy and confident into your wardrobe. Don’t be afraid to experiment with textures and patterns as well. A mix of textures can make your outfits more interesting and joyful. Whether it’s a soft cashmere sweater, a silk scarf, or a pair of leather boots, the tactile experience of wearing different textures can enhance your overall sense of well-being.

5. Create Outfit Formulas


Having a few go-to outfit formulas can make dressing in the morning a joy rather than a chore. An outfit formula is a simple combination of pieces that you know works well together. For example, a tailored blazer, a crisp white shirt, and a pair of well-fitted jeans could be one of your formulas. By having these formulas, you reduce decision fatigue and make getting dressed a pleasant experience.


6. Prioritize Comfort and Fit


Clothes that fit well and are comfortable to wear can drastically improve your mood. Make sure your clothes fit your body well and don’t cause discomfort. It’s worth getting items tailored if necessary. When you’re comfortable in your clothes, it shows in your confidence and overall demeanor.


 7.Personalize with Accessories


Accessories can add a touch of joy to any outfit. Whether it’s a statement necklace, a colorful scarf, or a pair of funky socks, accessories allow you to express your personality and creativity. They can also make old outfits feel new again. Choose accessories that make you smile and that you love to wear.


 8. Embrace Seasonal Changes


Changing your wardrobe with the seasons can bring a sense of renewal and excitement. Rotate your clothes to reflect the current season, storing off-season items out of sight. This keeps your wardrobe feeling fresh and ensures you’re always dressed appropriately for the weather. Plus, it gives you something to look forward to as the seasons change.


 9. Sustainable Choices for Joy


Being mindful of the environmental impact of your wardrobe can also bring joy. Choose sustainable brands, buy second-hand, and support ethical fashion practices. Knowing that your clothing choices are contributing to a better world can enhance your sense of joy and fulfillment.


10. Celebrate Your Wardrobe


Lastly, take time to celebrate your wardrobe. Organize it in a way that is pleasing to the eye, maybe even color-coordinated or by type of clothing. Enjoy the process of putting together outfits and appreciate the pieces you own. When you take pride in your wardrobe, it becomes a source of joy rather than stress.


Changing your wardrobe for joy isn’t about following trends or impressing others; it’s about creating a collection of clothes that make you feel your best. By focusing on quality, comfort, and personal expression, you can transform your wardrobe into a source of daily happiness. Remember, the goal is to feel good in what you wear and to let your clothes be a true reflection of your joyful self.

Unlocking Your Potential: The Power of Changing Your Mindset

By    May 27, 2024 //
 Unlocking Your Potential: The Power of Changing Your Mindset

In a world where challenges are inevitable and success often seems elusive, one of the most powerful tools at our disposal is our mindset. It shapes our perceptions, influences our reactions, and ultimately determines our life's trajectory. Changing your mindset is not just a motivational catchphrase; it's a transformative process that can unlock your potential and pave the way for a more fulfilling and successful life. Let's explore the steps to change your mindset and the profound impact it can have on you.

Understanding Mindset

Before diving into how to change your mindset, it's crucial to understand what mindset is. Psychologist Carol Dweck popularized the concept of fixed and growth mindsets in her groundbreaking research. A fixed mindset is the belief that abilities and intelligence are static and unchangeable. People with a fixed mindset often avoid challenges, give up easily, and feel threatened by the success of others. In contrast, a growth mindset is the belief that abilities and intelligence can be developed through effort, learning, and perseverance. Those with a growth mindset embrace challenges, persist through obstacles, and view failure as an opportunity to learn.

The Importance of a Growth Mindset

Adopting a growth mindset can lead to numerous benefits, including:

1. **Increased Resilience**: People with a growth mindset are more resilient in the face of setbacks. They see challenges as opportunities to grow rather than insurmountable obstacles.
2. **Enhanced Learning**: A growth mindset fosters a love for learning and a desire to improve, leading to continuous personal and professional development.
3. **Better Relationships**: Embracing a growth mindset can improve relationships by promoting empathy, open communication, and a willingness to understand and support others.
4. **Greater Achievement**: Those with a growth mindset are more likely to set ambitious goals and achieve them, as they believe in their capacity to grow and succeed.

Steps to Change Your Mindset

Changing your mindset is a journey that requires self-awareness, effort, and persistence. Here are some practical steps to help you transition from a fixed to a growth mindset:

1. **Acknowledge and Challenge Your Fixed Mindset Thoughts**: The first step is to become aware of your fixed mindset thoughts. When you catch yourself thinking, "I can't do this" or "I'm just not good at this," challenge these thoughts. Ask yourself, "What can I learn from this?" or "How can I improve?"

2. **Embrace Challenges**: Instead of avoiding difficult tasks, seek them out. Embrace challenges as opportunities to grow and learn. Remember, every challenge you overcome strengthens your growth mindset.

3. **Learn from Criticism**: Constructive criticism is a valuable tool for growth. Instead of taking it personally, use it as feedback to improve. Reflect on the criticism, identify areas for development, and take action.

4. **Celebrate Effort and Progress**: Focus on the effort you put into tasks rather than just the outcomes. Celebrate your progress, no matter how small. This reinforces the belief that effort leads to improvement.

5. **Cultivate Curiosity and a Love for Learning**: Stay curious and open to new experiences. Read, take courses, and engage in activities that expand your knowledge and skills. A love for learning is a cornerstone of the growth mindset.

6. **Surround Yourself with Growth-Minded People**: The people you spend time with can influence your mindset. Surround yourself with individuals who have a growth mindset and support your journey. Engage in conversations that inspire and challenge you.

7. **Practice Self-Compassion**: Changing your mindset is not about achieving perfection. Be kind to yourself and recognize that growth is a continuous process. When you encounter setbacks, treat yourself with the same compassion you would offer another person.

The Impact of a Changed Mindset

The journey to a growth mindset is transformative. By changing your mindset, you open yourself up to a world of possibilities. You'll find that you're more resilient, more open to learning, and more capable of achieving your goals. Your relationships will improve, and you'll approach life's challenges with a newfound sense of confidence and determination.

In conclusion, changing your mindset is not a one-time event but a lifelong journey. It requires dedication, practice, and a willingness to embrace change. By shifting from a fixed to a growth mindset, you can unlock your potential and create a more fulfilling and successful life. Start today, and watch as your world transforms.

The Art Of Style

By    May 24, 2024 //

 ### Book Outline: "Fashion and Colour: The Art of Style"


#### Introduction

- **The Importance of Fashion and Colour**

  - Historical perspective on fashion and colour.

  - How colour influences perception and emotion.

  - The role of fashion in personal and cultural identity.


#### Part I: The History of Colour in Fashion

- **Chapter 1: Ancient Civilizations and Colour**

  - Egyptian, Greek, and Roman use of colour in garments.

  - Symbolism and meaning of colours in ancient times.


- **Chapter 2: Medieval and Renaissance Eras**

  - The evolution of dyeing techniques.

  - The significance of colours in different social classes.

  - The impact of the Renaissance on fashion and colour.


- **Chapter 3: The Age of Enlightenment and the Industrial Revolution**

  - Technological advancements in fabric production and dyeing.

  - Shifts in fashion trends and the emergence of new colours.


- **Chapter 4: 20th Century to Present**

  - Major fashion movements and their signature colours.

  - The influence of pop culture and media on fashion colour trends.


#### Part II: The Science of Colour

- **Chapter 5: Colour Theory**

  - Basics of colour theory: primary, secondary, and tertiary colours.

  - Colour wheel and its applications in fashion.


- **Chapter 6: Colour Psychology**

  - How different colours affect mood and perception.

  - The psychological impact of colour choices in fashion.


- **Chapter 7: Fabric and Colour Interaction**

  - How different fabrics absorb and reflect colours.

  - The role of texture and material in the appearance of colour.


#### Part III: Colour in Fashion Design

- **Chapter 8: Designing with Colour**

  - The process of selecting colour palettes for collections.

  - Case studies of famous designers known for their use of colour.


- **Chapter 9: Colour Trends and Forecasting**

  - How fashion trends are predicted.

  - The role of fashion shows and influencers in setting colour trends.


- **Chapter 10: Colour and Branding**

  - The importance of colour in brand identity.

  - Examples of successful colour branding in fashion.


#### Part IV: Personal Style and Colour

- **Chapter 11: Finding Your Colours**

  - Personal colour analysis and how to find your best colours.

  - The impact of skin tone, hair colour, and eye colour on fashion choices.


- **Chapter 12: Building a Colour-Coordinated Wardrobe**

  - Tips for creating a cohesive wardrobe based on colour.

  - Mixing and matching colours for various occasions.


- **Chapter 13: Accessorizing with Colour**

  - The role of accessories in enhancing an outfit.

  - Choosing the right accessories to complement your colours.


#### Part V: The Future of Colour in Fashion

- **Chapter 14: Technological Innovations**

  - Smart textiles and their impact on fashion and colour.

  - Advances in sustainable dyeing techniques.


- **Chapter 15: Global Influences and Diversity**

  - How globalization is affecting colour trends.

  - The rise of cultural diversity in fashion.


- **Chapter 16: The Evolution of Personal Style**

  - Predictions for future fashion and colour trends.

  - The ongoing relationship between fashion, colour, and technology.


#### Conclusion

- **Reflections on Fashion and Colour**

  - The enduring importance of colour in fashion.

  - Encouragement to embrace personal style and creativity.


#### Appendices

- **Glossary of Terms**

  - Definitions of key terms related to fashion and colour.


- **Resources for Further Reading**

  - Books, articles, and websites for additional exploration.


- **Index**

  - An alphabetical listing of topics covered in the book for easy reference.

Shifting Focus

By    May 02, 2024 //
How has two months passed without posting? 

That's crazy! 

Just a quick one today because I have to share something burning on my heart, not sure how this is going to go. 

What do you do when you know you have a lot to give but you don't have the right connections to make it happen? 

So often in life it's who we know not what we know that moves the needle on big projects.

Everything is marketing. 

You market wrong, your project will yield crickets. 

You teach your audience what to expect by what you allow. How you allow yourself to be treated. 

I've given this alot of thought and I'm not happy with the way  I have personally taught people to treat my blog.

I made a choice, to talk about things that are taboo. With that decision comes shadow banning from the algorithm. 

Still my stats are good, I have around two  thousand readers a month. 

Not the biggest blog in the world but still it's healthy. I cherish every view. 

However, we have infact hit a cross roads. 

When I was younger I could get away with the edger content but now I'm older, I gave to think about my image especially for the working world. 

It's time to take daisy change to the next level. So I've done something unexpected, I split my content and moved the lighter content to a professional website so that I can serve two audiences. 


When I think of daisies I think fresh light and not heavy. When i think of daisy change, I think of change management through all that life throws at us. 

So from now on I want to go harder on the not for polite conversation subjects here, while maintaining a more professional attitude on the main website. 

Welcome to daisy changes secret hang out. 

Let's talk. 

The Running Shoes - Suicide, Depressio & Fighting To Win!

By    February 11, 2024 //
Trigger Warning - Low mood, depression, pain, suicide, past hurts, written about with the intent of encouragement 

Disclaimer - As always I still recommend seeking professional advice as to the first course of action if you are feeling low or depressed. All advice given is from experience only.


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Lambi Says - Don't let depression or anxiety beat you up you got this, fight to win!


If you have read my last few posts you will know that as of late I have been suffering from depression. 

Yet again Jet and his friends had me in a cage that was locked from the inside. (Jet is the name I give to depression because when it shows up for me it is usually jet black)

Sometimes life throws things at us that we really don't expect. When this happens we have to decide if we are going to retreat within ourselves or get out there and serve others. 

It can be the hardest thing to push yourself to think of others when you're feeling really low, but it's the very thing we need to do in such times. I have learned some other lessons about Jet and his friends that I want to share with you.

1. Jet's best friend is a doubt. 

Depression and doubt go hand in hand and together with fear, they tie you up and paralyze you, so they can throw more rubbish at you and make you think you are unable to fight back.

2. Depression lies. 

When depression hits, the voices start. Those voices that say you're worthless or that life isn't worth living, it's pretty common knowledge that depression can lead to bouts of feeling suicidal, but what's lesser known is depression lies to us in other ways too.

Depression can twist things in your mind, nothing is ever what it seems with depression, because you have a black veil over your eyes and unable to see clearly. 

I know from experience, I have done some pretty stupid things when listening to the voice of Jet and his friends. We can't blame all our stupid decisions on depression, but you best believe that depression can contribute to making things worse if you don't take care over what you say and do.

3. Depression loves drama.

It's not uncommon to think that things are far worse than they actually are, just because you are depressed, but also it's not uncommon to fill in blanks with things that are not really there. There is a tendency to overthink things when you're depressed, purely because you suddenly have the time to do so because your mind is not actively thinking about other things.

4. Life doesn't care that you did something because you were depressed, you will have to deal with the consequences anyway because that's just a part of life.

 It can be painful, especially if you know that depression was the reason actions such as rejecting people, lashing out or just disappearing from the world for a while actually happened and you now have to deal with the consequences of something you did when you were not feeling yourself.

5. Depression is selfish.

 It seems to be concerned with your pain but really it seeks only to give you more of the same. I know this one may get a little bit of lash back and that's fine. I understand that depression can be a chemical/hormonal issue, but it doesn't change the fact that if you let it, depression will tell you what to do.

These are 5 lessons I've learnt from my last visit from Jet.

 I'm sharing them because although many people experience different things even when battling the same issues, at least one of those lines I've just written may make you think of something in your own life.

I'm trying to make a point here, we can justify it and rationalize it all we like, don't get me wrong I am on the side of those fighting to end the stigma surrounding mental illness.

I know the pain of depression all too well, but the fact is, depression doesn't care about us, and its high time we fight back!

You see guys, there is hope. When you're depressed you don't think there is, but as I have stated before, sometimes hope is hidden. 

We can't see the beauty of a brand new day when we are too busy hiding under the sheets just wanting to give up on everything. 

Have you noticed that covering your head, be it by a blanket, your hands or something else, is the go-to position when you feel really low?


Depression loves the dark.

 Don't feed it.


Depression loves you to suffer. 

So take care of yourself.



Depression seeks to take you down.

 So take it down first. 


Fight to win!! 

You can, you think that you're too weak, but you are much stronger than you think and that pain you feel right now, is only a reminder that you are alive, you can make it.

Get up, it's time to start running again.

How?

The number one way to battle depression is to make sure you have the right tools for the job.

Get armed!
 Knowledge is power, but only if you apply it. 


Get the right tools for the job. 

Invest in yourself.

Know your enemy so you can work out how best to fight and get the right armour for the job because the battle is fierce!

  • This includes The right support - family, friends, medical professionals etc..
  • The right care tools - for your body, soul and spirit.
  • The right lifestyle for you, it's really important to be true to yourself and to allow your creativity, gifts and talents to be released into this world.
To be true to yourself, you must first find yourself.


The journey of self-discovery may take you to some strange places but stick with it because after finding God, finding yourself is the most precious discovery you can ever make and it will help you fight to win when it comes to depression.

Chase fulfilment, but don't forget to let yourself be happy too. 

Make peace with your past, because if you leave anything buried alive it will stink and like a zombie, come chasing you in your present life ready to kill you and taking you kicking and screaming back to the painful places.


I don't know who I am writing this too right now, but don't give up we need you!

You were born to solve a problem only YOU can solve.



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You were born with a purpose that goes far beyond this life, you can and will leave a legacy, but if you give up today...then the world loses out and the pain will not end.

Beautiful girl, the sun always shines brightest after the storm. 

Always. 
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The Son always shines brightest after the storm.

Dude, you got this.

Stand firm, get those running shoes on and prepare for battle.


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I don't know if Jet is ever going to get the message, the harder he and his dark company fight me, the harder I will fight back. The more encouragement, hope and love I will release into this world because I will not let Jet beat me!!

I wonder if maybe that's why life keeps throwing me this battle over and over again, but no matter the reason, I have resolved to fight to win, it was not an easy decision and fighting is part of the deal in the battle. 

Some days I really don't feel like it, and it is in those moments I must throw myself again on my Savior and allow my friends to help me keep my head above water. I want my life to be a living example that there is always hope.

Even if you suffer from depression, you can still have a fairly normal life ( whatever normal is) depression doesn't have to dictate how you treat other people, your life choices or your ability to work and chase your dreams. 



Yes I know it's hard sometimes , but that's why they call it a battle and here's a little secret about life, it's hard sometimes, fighting is a part of our makeup, we are designed to stand, we are designed to run and we are designed to win, the question is, are you ready to put away the excuses and get on with the race?  

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A few days ago I didn't want to be here, Jet had me in a headlock, but now I am so grateful for all the amazing people I learned my battle strategy for Jets attacks because he didn't win. I'm still breathing and life goes on.

I know this thoughts day post is a little late, but like I said at the beginning iv been going through a horrible depression recently and honestly, it nearly took me out....nearly.

I am back now though, stronger and more ready to fight than ever. 

Jet doesn't get to win in my life, not now not ever, but what about you?

Aren't you tired of being pushed around by depression?

Then stand up dear friend, an army is forming to take down Jet and all his evil devices, and if no one else wants the job, I'm happy to be the general. 

Are you in?

If you have any thoughts or comments feel free to get in touch, but for now, I think that's about it. 

I'm more than happy to pray for you if you send me your prayer request or to just listen if that is what you need.

Take care all, no seriously please take care!

Love Hayley
xXx

Navigating Love Across Miles: Valentine's Day in Long-Distance Relationships

By    February 10, 2024 //
Introduction:
In a world that is increasingly interconnected, many find themselves entwined in the delicate dance of long-distance relationships. As Valentine's Day approaches, the challenges of celebrating love across miles become more pronounced. However, distance doesn't diminish the depth of emotions; in fact, it often intensifies the connection between partners.

1. The Power of Digital Intimacy:
Technology has become the lifeline for long-distance couples. Video calls, instant messaging, and virtual dates bridge the physical gap, allowing partners to share moments and create lasting memories despite the miles. This Valentine's Day, consider planning a virtual dinner date or a movie night to recreate the sense of togetherness.

2. Thoughtful Gestures Transcend Distance:
While physical proximity is limited, the power of thoughtful gestures knows no bounds. Sending surprise gifts, handwritten letters, or a care package can convey love and commitment in a tangible way. Consider surprising your partner with a personalized gift that reflects shared memories or inside jokes, showcasing the effort you put into maintaining the connection.

3. Shared Experiences, Separated by Space:
Creating shared experiences is crucial for the growth of any relationship, and this holds true for long-distance couples. Use technology to your advantage by watching the same movie simultaneously, reading the same book, or even cooking the same recipe together. Engaging in shared activities fosters a sense of unity, making distance seem less daunting.

4. Planning Future Reunions:
Valentine's Day can be a perfect time to discuss and plan future reunions. Whether it's a weekend getaway or a more extended visit, having a plan for when you'll be together again can provide a sense of anticipation and give the relationship a goal to look forward to.

5. Emotional Communication:
Open and honest communication is the cornerstone of any successful relationship, and it becomes even more critical in long-distance ones. Expressing your feelings, discussing concerns, and maintaining transparency helps build trust and understanding. This Valentine's Day, take the time to communicate your love and appreciation for each other.

Conclusion:
Long-distance relationships are a testament to the resilience of love in the face of physical separation. Valentine's Day, although challenging, provides an opportunity for couples to strengthen their bond through creative means and thoughtful gestures. By embracing technology, creating shared experiences, and fostering open communication, distance can be overcome, and love can thrive across the miles.
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